Praise for me

I’ve never done this, as I’m not one to draw too much attention to my blog or myself, but today sucks a lot. I’m not in my home for Christmas, which has sucked for 30 consecutive years and this year isn’t shaping up to be a whole lot better (to give you an idea of just how … Continue reading →

What arouses a Dominant Woman?

Here is the website that talks about Sexual Arousal Types. Before I took the arousal type test, I guessed that I was The Attractor Type, but followed very closely by The Cognitive Type. I like to be noticed. I want to put on sexy lingerie and I want Iris to feel like he’s unwrapping the Best … Continue reading →

2 years of FemDom blogging. Thank you!

Wow,   when I just opened my blog, I saw a notification from wordpress. Here’s what it said:   I registered this blog exactly 2 years ago. Wow! So much has happened since then. Also, the blog does get a lot of readers. Here’s a screenshot for the last weeks: Last week, the blog had … Continue reading →

Punishment for a bad boy

Sometimes, just talking about problems over and over again doesn’t work to change anything. Sometimes, subs just don’t listen, and they do what they want, over and over again. Sometimes, taking away privileges just doesn’t work, apparently. So sometimes, boys get red butts. No, I’ve never hit him as punishment before. No, I don’t intend … Continue reading →

My obsession with Molko

Brian Molko is the singer for Placebo, which is a band I discovered when I was 16 and saw Cruel Intentions for the first time. Their song, Every You, Every Me, sucked me in immediately. I was goth back then (well ok, and still a little bit today, although nowadays I’d be “emo”) and everything about … Continue reading →

Discipline in a FemDom relationship

Happy New Year, everyone! I hope you had a nice party.   As for me, I was just surfing the net and reading the Domestic Discipline blog. This blog is not geared towards FLR / FemDom per se, but its Domestic Discipline Forum has a couple of men in FemDom relationships, as well. Which is … Continue reading →

How to look for a Femdom play partner

I’ve been looking off and on for a play partner. Sometimes I think my standards might be too high, but then I think about what exactly I want, and I think that my standards are right where they should be. When I go years without meeting anyone though, I have to occasionally second guess myself, … Continue reading →

How does a day in a Femdom relationship look like?

Iris got up at around 6 am to study for a test and walk the dogs (he always walks them in the morning and before bed so I don’t have to go out in the dark and cold). I slept in until around 8 am when he left for class. He’s moved his bath stuff … Continue reading →

Which are the most annoying habits of my sub?

Iris doesn’t have a lot of annoying habits. I use to complain about him leaving the toilet seat up (porcelain is really fucking cold, especially at 3 am), but we have our own bathrooms, his being on one end of the apartment and mine being attached to our bedroom, so not an issue anymore. I … Continue reading →

How does a long distance Femdom relationship work?

Today is our Sixth Day! For those of you who don’t know, up until now, Iris and I were in a long-distance relationship (and will be again come January, when he is sent to Korea for 18 months), and had not spent more than five continuous days together in person in the 16 months we … Continue reading →