How is Topping for a male sub?

Well.  Here I am again.  And there you are.  Possibly again.  Very potentially simply for the first time.  In which case, welcome, I’m Iris, the submissive half of this blog. Which just makes this topic a bit strange, as my second post is about being…less submissive. I used to identify as a switch.  Which jived … Continue reading →

The great things about being a sub to my mistress

I thought it would be neat to have Iris write his own list of “details.” It’s when Femi tells me I’m a good boy. It’s that moment when personal space becomes our space. It’s that look she gets when she’s plotting something. It’s when she perks up when she’s excited. That moment when her hand … Continue reading →