My journey to intimacy

This is a follow-up to Iris’s two posts on intimacy that you’ll need to read to understand where I’m coming from: Part 1 Part 2 I have a love/hate relationship with latex. I obviously like the stuff. Getting to that point wasn’t easy though, and even now, there are days when it brings back the feelings of … Continue reading →

Going pro

After over a year of deliberation, I’ve decided to look into professional domination. Not full time, and not full service. I’ll have a limited list of services offered, and since I don’t work as is, any income from it will go back into purchasing more toys and other items needed, as “mad money” for me, … Continue reading →

Praise for me

I’ve never done this, as I’m not one to draw too much attention to my blog or myself, but today sucks a lot. I’m not in my home for Christmas, which has sucked for 30 consecutive years and this year isn’t shaping up to be a whole lot better (to give you an idea of just how … Continue reading →

Can a man wearing a tutu be sexy?

This showed up on my facebook feed. I tried to find the original photo, but didn’t have much luck. I like the picture for two things: Hot men, wearing tutus. I don’t usually like men in women’s clothing. It’s a turn-off the vast majority of the time. This though? Hot. I can’t even explain why, … Continue reading →

What arouses a Dominant Woman?

Here is the website that talks about Sexual Arousal Types. Before I took the arousal type test, I guessed that I was The Attractor Type, but followed very closely by The Cognitive Type. I like to be noticed. I want to put on sexy lingerie and I want Iris to feel like he’s unwrapping the Best … Continue reading →

2 years of FemDom blogging. Thank you!

Wow,   when I just opened my blog, I saw a notification from wordpress. Here’s what it said:   I registered this blog exactly 2 years ago. Wow! So much has happened since then. Also, the blog does get a lot of readers. Here’s a screenshot for the last weeks: Last week, the blog had … Continue reading →

How to control your man, the Femdom way

So much “advice” that Cosmo rolls out is just ridiculous, and treats men as if they are fragile little snowflakes who will melt at so much as a harsh tone. Today I bring you Cosmo’s “10 Ways To Change Your Man (just a little),” with what I’d do instead. I like to think of my … Continue reading →

Fail Mail

Failure 1 – Male Slave, Missouri, 45:     Kneeling kissing beautiful Mistress feet Oh, I am so glad you find the funky toenail on my second toe on my left foot erotic. Most people think it’s freaky, looking more like a claw than a toenail, but you, you think it’s beautiful. I finally feel like a … Continue reading →

Sex in the bathroom

The night starts with an hour of teasing him in a shared bath. Kept hard, kept wanting. Hands and mouth kept off of me; bath toys are passive after all. After awhile, my hands get tired, but I’m nowhere near done. “What should we do next?” A flick of his nipple. A pinch. A twist. … Continue reading →

A review of “How To Find a Dominant Woman”

I recently had the chance to review the book “How To Find a Dominant Woman”. It’s available at Amazon. The author, Jak, contacted me before and offered me to read the book for free. Well, deal! As if I don’t like to read FemDom Books 🙂 Jak runs a website, thefemdomist.com , where he blogs about … Continue reading →